When the lack of communication resides in the marriage

Lack of communication techniques are essential in a good marriage and friendship relationship – before the red light danger zone kicks in.

Wearing glasses can help focus a clear view during a situation. Marriage misunderstandings, complications or a situation are misperceived by seeking attention for a clear vision, when one or both partners are misinterpreting or lack listening skills.

Broken glasses determine that one or both partners are not aware of what is of relevant importance, indicates that one’s vision and perception are impaired. One or both partners may not see the correct or constructive facts.

The reading of body and facial expressions represents contradictions, dishonesty, disbelief, behavior, manners or doubts. It can also indicate concern, discomfort, or disapproval.

Eye contact at all times during miscommunication can support closeness, awareness, enlightenment, understanding, understanding, and intellectual awareness. Unconscious thoughts, patterns, habits, and attitudes may surface symbolizing the perception of something that they must be aware of to understand. When one of the partners avoids looking the other in the eye, it is an objective proof that he is not ready to converse intellectually.

Literally, expression, words, or actions can represent stopping and looking inward. Before focusing on your partner. Trust your intuition and instincts. If during a heated situation one of the partners becomes extremely negative towards you, simply learn to walk away by suggesting that we take five, five can refer to a five minute cool down and then meet to work it out. It’s amazing what five minutes of complication analysis can bring you. Most importantly when making the decision to follow the rules of communication, such as taking minutes, both partners must agree; Otherwise, one of the partners may feel neglected, leading to further activation of the red light. Avoid this situation to strengthen and grow in your marriage and friendship.
Otherwise, this condition will represent a path of coexistence of obstacles. Avoid critical vision and failures in others: alternatively focus by choosing to demand self-awareness of the situation and importance.

Ignorance in eye contact indicates your refusal to accept your partner’s point of view. This manner or attitude indicates that you are one-sided in your way of thinking. If one is angry at a partner, it is safe to say that it is time to calm down, this moment can provide time for understanding and reconnection, rather than playing the blame game, as in my personal experience, blaming others, is not the proper answer, we must first work within ourselves to understand the faults or pain of others. When we allow blaming or blaming others, we are simply masking our own agenda from our own fears to accept our painful past experiences. Once you provide a pathway to self-awareness and awareness of your own experience of pain as an inner child, you will begin to determine, immerse yourself, and coexist with your partner to work on mutual understanding.

Verbal fights are as damaging as physical fights, if not worse, due to the fact that emotional abuse is taking place, which turns into mental abuse. Physical abuse is simply an intolerable period, if one of the partners wants to draw blood, it is a good sign to say that you are not in a safe and comfortable place. Love does not require tolerance for violence, it is simply unacceptable.
Sometimes, one of the partners may not realize that they are transmitting painful messages to the other to alleviate the internal pain, causing more distress to the other couple, subconsciously, saying unnecessary hurtful things to protect their own ego, the ego It is most of the complication, from the beginning, as if one had relevant information to show who is right or who is wrong, however, one of the partners may continue to weigh on the relationship by becoming controlling while you are things go through the head. That at some point you may have shared when there was a friendship and that couple took their strength from sharing such information as weakness. When the friendship begins to deteriorate, everything else follows, like sexual complications. One of the partners begins to feel dissatisfied. Then things tend to get worse, the yelling begins, and both partners become frustrated, looking outside of the relationship for friendship and more.

Because because now respect is lost, otherwise to reactivate the green light you must first stop at the red light and proceed with caution.

Somehow, both partners must stop and think before entering a danger zone. To communicate, the first step, stop and listen to each other. It doesn’t matter how painful it is. No one is going to say that it is easy. However, it provides an opportunity for challenge and reconnection.

If you have a hard time speaking without yelling, I suggest you start writing back and forth without speaking, paying attention to each other sitting across from each other. Never in your temple of love, (Bedroom) the place where you share intimate love, it is important that the sacred place contains only positive energy.

This teaches patients connection, peace of mind, understanding, friendship and, most of all, communication. When it comes to the inner child, don’t fear what comes up, start sharing things that may have come out of the past that contributed or caused your feelings to manifest in a certain way at the time. Unconsciously we tend to wear old clothes that are deeply wounded inside. Furthermore, we tend to alter our new treasure to make up for old hurts.

The three main complications of marital affairs are communication, finances, and sex. Communication that symbolizes inner vision and inner perception can illuminate the relationship. You have to start looking within yourself to understand your partner, many times adventures occur when a couple is not 110% focused and / or committed to exchanging all their loving energy with their partner, one must realize when a partner has An adventure, that couple is assuming and accepting full responsibility, for their own lack of communication and dissatisfaction. By communicating, you can save your marriage from any mishap. That’s where friendship really has value and mutual respect.

If you close your eyes to truth or rejection: regarding something or avoidance of intimacy. You may be expressing feelings of pain, pain, or sympathy. Your partner may want to back down from negative affairs to ignite things in favor of commitment. Romance is there when everything else is smooth sailing.

If your partner’s interest is not in the richness of the relationship, it means that he is not seeing well with respect to some situation. You may be confusing your facts, your partner may have lost interest a long time ago, to reignite the romance, there has to be a commitment of pure love and desire.

Conflict is part of life regardless, that is what provides a crutch for growth and when both partners are aware that they are aware of the action and reaction towards the other and in turn this provides growth within the relationship. However, it is important to have structure for potential lasting growth in the same direction.

Communication and friendship are the key to a happy and long-lasting marriage.

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