How does a guy like you? These are the typical questions of most girls who are looking for a stable relationship. In reality, boys are not complicated creatures. In general, we know what we want and a few know how to get it. If you are a lady and you want a guy to notice you, there are certain things you should do.

In this article, I’ll discuss how to get a guy to notice you in simple and powerful steps, even if you haven’t met him before. These steps are for those who have noticed a guy and want him to notice her (getting him to fall in love with you is another story).

Fortunately, getting a guy to notice you is easier because it involves using basic social skills. It must be honest, direct, personable, and reasonable. These are the ways:

If you don’t know the boy

1. Smile and make eye contact

Either with your mouth closed or with your mouth open, just do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you are a happy, confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to let them know that you invite their company.

2. Establish communication

Just saying “hello” or “hello” is the easiest way to get him to notice you. Some girls obtained the boys’ phone or cell number just to talk to the boys. Some of the guys would not like the girls to have this kind of first move.

Talk to him to try to get to know him a bit by talking about things you have in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask a question. Listen to him and don’t interrupt him when he is speaking. You could even congratulate him or ask for his help.

3. make friends with him

Be with the flow. Befriending him is a sure way to build a relationship. It is good that you befriend him at first so that they will notice you. A serious relationship often begins with a friendship. Who knows what will happen in the end. By doing this, they will get to know each other more often.

4. Get to know him better

Find what you like in a girl. Go with what you like. Get to know their lifestyle or day-to-day activities. If the boy jogs every day at a certain time, then go jog with him. Then, talk to him in a friendly way and don’t let him realize that you like him or that you are doing this for him.

If by chance you know or are already friends with the boy

1. Make a connection with him by knowing what he’s doing and he likes you both.

Having the same hobbies or activities will help you get noticed. Joining the same club or working together is one of the keys to knowing more about it.

2. Dress well to attract attention

Get a new look. Don’t change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It’s a good idea to switch things up every now and then, just because variety is the spice of life and might help you get their attention. Try to be that tough girl who is different from all the other good looking girls who give her eyes, because beauty is common, but good perspective and great energy are very rare.

3. Flirt with him.

Do as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will probably make him notice, but maybe not in a good way. If he reacts and doesn’t think it’s real (he’s only doing it because you’re there and you’re a girl and you think you can do better, let him know you can’t). If he’s faking it, say something to him that lets him know that you don’t think he’s “all that.” For example, if he approaches, make a face and offer him gum. This will throw your ego out of balance.

4. Try to be around him often.

Take an interest in the activities that interest him, not only to get closer to him, but also to get to know him better and broaden your own horizons. (But never pretend to love something you don’t even like just because he likes it! Although most men find this cute, when and if they ever find out, it can be painful for you and usually unnecessary) .

5. Be yourself

Be yourself and remember that some first impression seems to last. Most girls find themselves acting awkward when confronted with or meeting the person they like. Being with yourself lets the guy know who you really are. Don’t overdo anything. Pretending to be like someone you’re not, just to impress this guy is no good.

Finally, you can’t get everyone to notice you. Remember that guys come and go, so don’t stress if things don’t go your way. You are a normal, well-rounded person on your own, and you don’t need a boy’s attention to be happy. But remember, being overly obsessive can do the opposite of what you want to achieve, pushing you further away. If he just won’t be attracted to you, leave him alone. Don’t push him, or things could get ugly and you’ll earn a bad reputation. Good luck girls!